updated

what to say
I'm just going to let my thoughts flow out
we talk to much, and not enough
what i mean is that we talk too much about things that are not important to us.
when it comes to something really important, it can be hard to talk about.
we need to be more open
and less judgemental
one of my friends (E) likes this guy(H), and thinks that another of my friends(J) also likes him, because she(J) put a few jokes on his face book wall, like saying "hi sexy" and "i sleep with your picture under my pillow"
what my one friend(E) cant understand is (J) is referring to some jokes in band class (which was very entertaining) but anyways (E) is now mad at (J) and taking it out on me
which is getting annoying, as she wont listen to me when i say (J) doesn't like him that way


sorry... i needed to get that off my mind.


i have been really happy lately
i don't really know why.
but I've noticed this
you need to be a friend to make friends
last year i was really antisocial
and guess what
i was a bit of a loner
this year i have a lot of friends
so yeah

i really love music
its enjoyable
i still cant understand how people can like rap like the song "this is why I'm hot" and not like any classical music
but to each their own

we focus too much on relationships
as in dating
right now most of us (as in grade 10,11, and 12) are desperate to be in relationships (not everyone, but a lot)
we need to realise that at our age relationships wont usually last forever
I'm not saying its bad to date
I'm just saying this
don't try to rush into a relationship
you may find the right person, and everything will be great
or you might date a guy/girl who you really like and they end up being a jerk
here is a bit of advice
make sure you know a lot about the person
make sure you talk to then at least once a week for awhile (at least if your in school with them)
this may not apply to everyone, but try to be friends with them before you date,
don't rush into the relationship,
for this i will use an example
you are running quickly, as fast as you can, (that would be to get into the relationship) then the wind blows against your back (that could be friends trying to help you but its speeding up you trying to get into the relationship) then you try to suddenly stop (you got into the relationship) but you cant stop, your momentum pushes you forward and you fall on your face (the relationship ends suddenly and quickly)
so don't try to rush things
everything will happen for a reason



yeah
some of these things most people wouldn't expect me to say
as last year, i did try to rush into relationships
and got hurt from them
Ive learned from my mistakes



but yeah
if there is anything you want me to talk about, just ask.


sing like no one is listening
dance like no one is watching
live like each day is your last (as in don't just sit there like a zombie all day)
love like you've never been hurt


(here is some good advice taken from the Tao of peace website)
Let compassion and truth be your guide when dealing with self and others.

peace
shadowstich